How much effort I put into something tells me just how much value I have placed either on an item or someone. I have become extremely cautious with my generosity not because I hardly ever get it back but am done with phase investments. Let’s break it down.
If by the following week, though a day is enough for me to already know, I look at you and start losing respect for you internally, am done with you in my books. The only thing I can offer you is maturity and a few kind words if need be. I took the time but I can’t lose anymore. I used to go all out when dating. Now am not. Neither dating nor making an effort. I have developed a man thought process. Sure I like you, ama clean myself up and smell good coz am attracted but am not purchasing any new item. No sir!
I keep asking myself this. Is there a man out there who likes me enough to even purchase a new pair of boxers, change his cologne or even buy a new suit to impress me? It’s almost May. As a matter of fact, it’s May, if you may. See what I did there? Ofcourse not! Why would you. If it’s not broken why fix it? Am sure that’s what running through the mind of most men as they read this. Because it matters. It makes a difference. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks but I say you can’t teach a new trick to an old dog.
So Romeo, if you are expecting a beauty who will blow your mind away, that’s why we keep passing each other on these rather busy streets. Get your list of image expectations and burn it. Then come down to earth. Put the liquor down because you will need to be sober to notice me. For me, my time is too expensive to waste it on someone who is not willing to yield results. The try and error is over. You are either who/what I want/need or not. Not just in a man but in everything am doing. What doesn’t make me happy is not worth doing.
Gentlemen, if I show up please take it very seriously because I never show up. If I smell extra good, don’t hold back the compliments because am here for it. You only get one opportunity in life, please leave a lasting impression. Take advantage of it positively.
That is #MyMagazineThoughts serving as a constant #RealityCheck
