It Must Pay Off

I swear this is the most interesting blog am about to write coz it means everything to me and to  those smart enough to get what am saying. Not everyone is blessed with real friends and by that I mean the kind who tells you the unpleasant truth. Bitch stop! That man doesn't like you like that. So don't put your life on hold for a man who is hang up on someone else and even if he would settle for less, you still don't make the cut. Harsh but true . Ouch! 

Late night chats with the realest, illest and craziest bestfriend is what am all about. If your friend can't make you laugh at yourself to a point you can't breathe you haven't lived. Watching #Insecure I can't help but think the world is not ready for her. That's why my friend and I avoid putting ourselves out there coz to the rest of the world we are intimidating coz being orginal is a myth nowadays. Thank you Issa Ray for proving that there is more to life than how you look. There is hope for the rest of us. Different is so refreshing.  

To all the good men who have accomplished and are accomplishing the impossible congratulations. Your hard work has paid off. Now tell me this, why are you complaining that there are no good women out there when you keep going for the same old beautiful, renowned,  eloquent ladies with no character and personality. I write this with so much humility like am a lady but compared to how majority modern females are going the extra mile sorry to say to look alike coz they all look the same to me unfortunately you can never have a conversation with such because their reasoning is as plain as my everyday look. No effort. The conversations are always short just incase the real villagers in them comes out. They don't laugh, they smile . They don't giggle, they sigh. They don't laugh sheepishly, they pose and blush .  Wow!!! sounds like a full time job babygal.....

Ladies, would you date a man who is not financially stable? So why are you mad when he goes for the best in the market and it happens to not be you?  All I can say is its anyone's game so don't play yourself while you still have a good thing going. Will you end up with a good man, only God knows. Don't hold your breath or compromise if part of you still believes that there is more out there. Make the most of it. Live each day as it comes unapologetically responsibly but remember there are always consequences. Don't sweat or overthink it, do it or walk away.

Still, I don't get it but hey, try different. Sometimes what you go for is not necessarily what you need. This world can only handle one of you so don't bother waiting for someone or something to come complete you.  As a matter of fact,  you are what you have been waiting for so go out there and maybe your positivity will attract something or someone close enough to match up your madness or rather find you amazingly weird in a very good way.

Now this is my #RealityCheck IT MUST PAY OFF!!!!!!!!

It's never that serious

The hunger and thirst for fame, recognition and followership is real. Why can't you be your own person? Surgery is meant for disfigured individuals and not to enhance beauty. Let's be clear. That's abuse of knowledge if not invention. Unless it's broken please don't try and fix it. No matter how wealthy self made you have become or God has blessed you, you can never buy immortality. Let that sink in.

The extremes majority of us have had to go through to look and live a certain way is sheer stupidity. Can I be real after all, this happens to be my #RealityCheck . How desperate was I? Was I mad? Do these questions sound familiar at this particular time in your life? Congratulations! You have finally given up on what is expected of you and embraced what works for you. You sir /ma'am are now your own person.

If it works out well and good if not venture into something else which excites you even more. At the end if the day, it's never that serious why coz time and life either way has to go on whether you are ready or not. It's that simple so let's not complicate things. You either like someone or you don't. Enough with the am not sure talk ..... mr/miss string along until better shows up. While you are busy postponing now to later you are only opening yourself up to becoming bitter not better. The best memories in life are never planned so why are trying you tame your heart to societies lame hurts.

You are what you have been waiting for so wake up child, live, laugh and love as though it's the first time God has granted you sight. Are you there yet, heck screw it. You are here now and that's all that matters. Take a leap of faith, oh I dare you!!!!!