Make an effort

I am thankful for love ❤️. No matter how many times you give it away, you are never left empty. So people who walk around holding on to it for dear life really amaze me. Why would you be afraid to be free? Love frees you from fear. 2020, you should give love a chance

I am not suggesting you walk around telling people you love them. That’s missing the whole point. Holding it in does nothing for your soul either. It’s not everyday you wake up falling in and out of love so if you can feel it, embrace .For those who have taken the time to heal and date themselves in the process, don’t be unfair to yourself. Get back in the game. Unless you plan to fall for the same person who hurt you before, give yourself the benefit of a doubt. It’s going to be different and scary but isn’t that what a leap of faith is all about. Trying something else yet believing it will work it. Don’t push or force it. Let it work itself out. Don’t rush or walk away, stay and be in the moment.This time don’t just be with anyone, be selfish enough to be with someone who actually meets you half way. Write down the qualities you want in him or her. At the same time write down what you intend to offer them.Evaluate the value they are going to bring in your life. As a man you must provide. Figure it out. Don’t say women only want men with money. Try key word try and make ends meet. Let her meet you doing something. Make an effort goddamnit.

Turn a hobby into a career

As a lady, don’t just sit and look pretty. Go back to school and get an education or be street smart. Be a gain not a pain. Be his source of strength, advisor or business partner. Be involved and on the look out for new opportunities to capitalize on. Be an asset . His asset

Last but not least, fall inlove. Love as if no one ever broke your heart. Love as if it’s your first encounter with this mysterious word and world it has to offer. Love blindly not holding anything back and wisely to not cross the line between sanity and insanity. Don’t love because it feels like a movement, love because your heart is ready to embrace the presence of someone else. Dare yourself to give it your all not in the hopes of it MUST work out but rather it WILL work itself out.
Promise yourself this. Until you are sure, you will not say you love someone when in actuality all you want is a quick fix to get you through afew rough and tough nights and days ahead.

The next time you say I love you regardless of whether they will say it back or not, you will have been bold enough to love again. Before long, you will have settled down with the one who will fall madly, deeply inlove with you.

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