That’s a blessing in disguise

When your face finally matches your heart 💜. It wasn’t easy. I got it wrong so many times that I thought I would never realize what God sees in me until this morning. I saw it. I saw myself in ways I longed for. Can I share with you some knowledge that just dawned on me? Alright

The secret is finding yourself.

I believe that’s why people are determined to not just bring you down but keep you down because as long as you lose your identity, you will never ask for what you want or walk away from situations that no longer serve you the right energy. Think about it. Misery loves company. As long as you never act or dream better than me, we good. We can hang out. As long as I am incharge and you need me, you are welcome with open arms in my circle. You are good people. Allow me to just laugh at this idiocracy.

That’s just taking advantage of vulnerability. That’s when need meets a dead end. Walls on walls. That’s just need camouflaged as desperation which allows you to settle or accept what looks like a way out. To me it is long-overdue gratitude. Everything has an expiry date baibèé.

It’s the people or situations that you underestimate the most that end up surprising you. They might not come in the usual package, I mean,why would they? They would lose their purpose. That’s their hidden beauty. They are the real game changers. I really do admire the men in the Bible because they had flaws and not only that but everytime they were thrown under, baibèé they ensured they won. This is just my opinion, don’t quote me but I bet God would smile and be like that’s why I choose these men to His angels. Represent!!! Moses was a stammerer but that sure didn’t stop God. Saul went from a certified cold hearted murderer to brother Paul, changing souls. Hey,*laughing sheepishly* that’s just God being God. Then there is my sweetheart David, sorry Boaz. If there was no Boaz, there would be no David #RealityCheck

All these amazing men were underestimated. So I say to all the ladies out there, he might not look the part but at no point should you ever underestimate his strengths. He is intentionally unappealing to keep everyone else uninterested. That’s a blessing in disguise. Run with it.

To all the men out there, he who finds a good wife finds a good thing. You are not to teach her how to be a wife as she comes with the hidden gifts. And obtains favor from The Lord. If you find well, there is a reward and if you get it wrong well, #LetsFallInLove Let’s 💜 baibèé