It gets better but first reality

Have you ever had an encounter with people whose purpose was to ensure you stayed down. That their words cut you deep enough to leave open wounds. That their presence stung you enough for you to cave and accept defeat. This is a throw back blog. It gets better but first reality.

Everything you do is wrong. Everytime I get such memories am sure better is on it’s way. It’s that windy dust that comes right before it rains. It just doesn’t rain, there is always a sign that indicates that rain is headed your way. Some wisdom dawned on me yesterday.

Some people are so unhappy with themselves that instead of working on their hearts and minds, they tend to take it out on everyone else. Not just on anybody ladies and gentlemen, think this through, it’s always someone who reminds them of what they don’t and can’t have. PREACH!!!

Your existence and presence irritates their entire being. They can’t stand you. They don’t like you and worse off don’t understand why everyone else does so they make you their “purpose” and ensure they “try” and convince everyone else that you are not the real deal.

This doesn’t feel like a blog. Lord, am preaching. They want what you have because they know they don’t have it in them to do it the way you do. A toast to people who make it appear to damn easy so much so that when others try, they fail miserably *cheers*.

I always say if you have it naturally, even when you take a break or decide to branch out perhaps from a company or group, you should be able to bounce back and make it seem like you never lost it to begin with. But if you are struggling with creativity, you never got caught.You never look good trying to make someone else look bad but on rare occasions, you have got to let them understand that unlike them you don’t make loud barks baibèé because when you bite you only stop when you see blood. You are dangerously good at anything you do.

I am here to encourage you not to allow anything or anyone talk you out of having a fabulous life. Let’s not limit ourselves in terming it as year or years. Heck am still doing a lot of growing and up. It’s a continuous process. One thing I keep telling myself is this, no matter how well put together someone else appears, no one has two lives. You can’t pause you life to come be a better me. If you know of any human who is privileged to have multiple lives, we need an urgent meeting because I need their secret seeing as I can barely keep up with my own life.

If you have nothing to offer, no one would be paying attention. My question to myself is always simple, Njeri are you seeking attention or is what you are naturally good at drawing in attention? Hold yourself accountable for your own life and live #LetsFallInLove Let’s 💜 baibèé