Decisions

Well eventually sooner or later you have to make a decision .... Silence in itself is a  decision you know so every reaction however minor or major counts. 

So how do you know you have made the right decision when you can face the situation & the people in well from that situation right in the eye and not feel like chocking the life out of them or setting the place on fire. That is how you know. When you know you have done all you can giving it everything you had in you and walk away feeling a certain peace ... strange silence.... that is when you are ready for then what in your life. 

Ensure that before you start anything new that all pending issues are solved well those that you can handle. Always thrive to be the"bigger man" be mature enough not to earn respect but know that your conscious is clear. Be at peace with yourself. 

The minute you start minding your own is when everyone else becomes intrigued in your life.So why not give them something worthwhile to admire if not talk about