My now thought

The dangers of not knowing what you want out of life is not only scary but real. Understand this if you don't expect anything then chances are you will accept everything life throws your way. You become desperate & desperate people initially have nothing to loose. 

Don't settle just because it's available but do it because you cannot go another day without that change in your life . Allow yourself the opportunity to be surprised by life & not surprise life by caving in just because the offer is thrilling. 

Many of us if not most of us have accepted afew if not more relationships be the center of their lives just because the other party was available. I always say easy come easy go. Just because he/ she is what you wanted & available doesn't necessarily mean they are meant to be in your life. 

This is my now thought. Will write more